Now how many of you have responded to funny titles? We think a boring typical headline is a turn off to many intelligent people, you need a title that would stimulate your curiosity, forget about the: nice lady looking for same, or, are you out there prince charming?
No, make it interesting and unique, like a joke, a quote you always thought highly of, or just some sentence that would make the reader think or laugh.
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When talking about you in the description Be Yourself NEVER try to be someone you are not. Not only do you come across as insincere but you can fall into a lie you created yourself.
Do Present yourself as confident and in possession of a healthy self-esteem. That s the type of women, men would like to be attached to, those who feel good about themselves. Certainly, this is a turn-on for you as well. If you feel desirable and sexy, it makes sense that others will too. Write about who you are, what your likes and dislikes, what you enjoy, books you have read, movies you have seen and been touched by, your favorite travel destinations, cooking, pets, anything that matters to you.
If low self-esteem is a problem for you, this should be the first area you work on in yourself. It is not necessary to have over the top confidence, just a sense that you are someone that has a lot of positives to offer others.
Do some reading, take a class of self confidence, become friends with assertive people, learn from your confident entourage how to say no and how you can get what you want, and not let anyone take advantage of you.
Remember also that when you treat yourself with respect and adhere to healthy boundaries with others, you will foster a healthy sense of self.
Trying to be cool or aggressive, (etc.), just makes you awkward and unapproachable. Relax, be natural, you cannot attract men to the person who is fake in you, they will be disappointed when they get to know the real you.
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